I have done the same as well for you. And technically, I kept a Femininus longer than you have. Your arrogance of "you've never tried keeping a femininus, let alone an anampses" was one of the things that got this argument nowhere. I'm not saying you're 100% in the wrong, but you were sort of a hypocrite.
Let me answer your original question for the final time. They just get stressed out easier than other fish, but nothing different from other wrasses.
You haven't kept a Femininus - you worked at a wholesaler! Then you quote me as having said "you've never tried keeping a femininus, let alone an anampses" and I have not written those words, yet you put them in quotation marks and attribute them to me.
You stated above that Femininus are no different to other Wrasse. I am not able to agree with that based on my limited experience with Wrasse (Femininus, Pintail, Diamond Tail, Dusky, Twistii, Yellow Tail Tamarin, Black Tail Tamarin, Red Tail Tamarin, Potters, Six Line and perhaps a few I have forgotten, but a relatively small number). I don't really recall many people posting how they just cannot keep a Six-Line alive compared to the difficulty with Anampses of various types.
What got this started on a road to nowhere was this:
Earl Karl said:
If you didn't QT and didn't feed medicated foods, it was definitely the intestinal parasites that finished it off. Wrasses usually run rampant with them.
Not to be rude, but just a bit more research and it would probably be still alive.
Made worse by daft comments such as:
Earl Karl said:
If you want to improve the chances of keeping Anampses, live in Australia.
Really helpful...
The bottom line is that nearly all of the fish we keep are imported. Some from the same regions have far higher success rates than others. I am simply trying to establish if there are any reasons within our control that have a significant impact on the outcome or if it really is just down to luck with these fish, beyond the usual things that might give them the best possible chance.
I'm left with the thought that the shipping is more stressful for the sand-dwellers and thus they are in worse shape when they arrive, even if they don't look like they are in bad shape, and that's perhaps the primary reason for them having such a low survival rate in our tanks. That's based on no real knowledge of any changes that might have happened with shipping them, as I am sure I read something about this somewhere recently, or whether some other very tricky Wrasse are not sand-dwellers but have equally low success rates.
This is what I was hoping to discuss but the thread has been taken way off course.[/QUOTE][/QUOTE]