Jen, yesterday Kev and I were joking about it, nothing to do with someone being gone or anything, it just happened that Kevin and I were connected at that moment and the joke came out on its own, I myself pass by every day the threads of everyone in this family, what happens is that maybe I don't write because that trust that I have with the members here I don't have it yet with the members of the other threads but that is gained little by little, I am the most new here but you have created such a familiar space here that I don't think anyone is going to be upset, let alone leave, because you or anyone else tells us how they are progressing with whatever situation they have.I’ve noticed that too. Didn’t want to call it out though as I think I’m a contributing factor- to much health stuff vs reefing. I have made an effort not to be that person but you all are so kind in checking in on me I sometimes get too detailed.
Kev, I’m being serious here so no dad jokes ok.
Joel created a whole space for a diverse group of people to come together and have fun but also be reef-centric I believe.
So I’m making some big assumptions here, but the reality is we have been losing some regulars to other threads. And to clarify that- we should be visiting other threads and learning differently, laughing differently, etc.


