it is ok...I don't call them enablers, I consider them sharing their experience so I get smarter at this and also get to see all that is out there to see, without spending my money to see them hahahah...and Maybe even save me from a bad mistake(s). Yes there are alot of expensive gadgets, coral and fish (lions,and tigers and bears oh my!) hahah but if I can build it, in the long run I am saving cash for the good expensive things I can't make...I rather get good stuff and enjoy it then crap and have headaches... I worked up to 3 jobs at a time when I was younger, I hustled in little Italy/ Bronx NY for 20 years, now in AZ for 20 years now to enjoy life and the finer things, well if they are affordable. I am not one to just sit around, I am always working or doing something...like right now getting a cup of coffee and chatting with all my new friends.......