Although it is wise to consider this, based on your situation it is almost impossible (for us) to safely answer yes. You are looking at over 700 lbs for the display tank alone, not including sump or stand. You have also acknowledged the location will not be on a load bearing wall as well as will run parallel to the joists, which are both the polar opposite to what everyone would recommend.
That said, I imagine it will be fine, I have read about plenty of people who have successfully had a 65-90 gallon in various places in the house. If you are legitimately concerned, get an engineer in. Definitely worth the money, it should only be a couple hundred bucks for that peace of mind...