By all accounts that I've heard (with exceptions for invasive sponges), ornamental sponges are incredibly difficult to maintain (not grow, just maintain) in our tanks; cryptic sponges seem to do quite well though (some people keep cryptic refugia where they use cryptic sponges as filtration).
You probably wouldn't be able to grow cryptic sponges in the tank, but you could probably grow them in the sump; ornamental sponges would probably die/just survive without growing regardless.
If you want to try ornamental sponges anyway, see the post linked below:
Recieved lr from tbs yesterday. I have an ID question. Is the red encrusting stuff a sponge??? I also got some form of sps (hard to see).
www.reef2reef.com
If you want to try cryptic sponges, Reeffarmers was the place to buy them; last I heard (late August of 2022) they were still selling, so I'd assume they're running, but I haven't seen any updates on them recently:
Farmed Sponges and Sea Squirts Reeffarmers