I have 14 acan variations of acans. The main reasons i've found that they retract are low alk then (high alk + very low po4) then high nutrients. This is assuming the placement is correct and you've seen them fluffy before they retracted.
If the acan never opened up for you then placement can definitely be an issue along with water parameters. The reason i mentioned the number of acans earlier is that each one required a different placement in my tank (60x24x24 w/ 2 radion g4 pros and 4 t-5 bulbs). Some had to be on the sand bed, others had to be at the top of my rockwork. Trying to find the placement was a bit challenging but when placed properly they'll grow super fluffy over time. One thing i found is that they have to be left in one spot for a couple of days. If they are fluffier than the day before then it's a good spot.
So assuming the acan never opened then it could be the water parameters and placement.
Your phosphates are high. When do you take your PO4 test? I recommend tracking it over a few days at roughly the same time and definitely take the test before you feed the tank. (I was wondering why i was getting readings at .1 sometimes and .04 others, found out that it was testing before vs after feeding)
If po4 remains high, i'd recommend doing a wc then using an export method. Are you running a fuge with chaeto? If not that's a good start or an ATS - algae turf scubber (which is what i prefer). And while GFO is a good contender i'd recommend kalkwasser in your situation. BRS has good videos on methods for adding it to your top off or using a drip. I preferred a KW reactor and doser. The KW will not only help precipitate phosphates it will help stabilize kalk & alk. Be sure to track PO4 as it declines and keep the rate to roughly .03 ppm loss per day max. If you get to .03 ppm and lower PO4 then your alk has to be below 9 dkh or a lot of corals will get ****** off.
Nitrates are maybe just a bit high. Not necessarily 'too high' but if it were me i'd try getting them to around 5ppm or so.
Just to verify, you have calibration solution for your refractometer or salinity meter?
There's a big difference between your red sea test and your salifert test which is disconcerting. I just found out tonight that theres a 1 dkh difference between my hanna and my red sea tests which caused ****** off corals while i dialed in a new calc reactor.
In your case i would say that 10.1 dkh may be a bit high however 8.8 may be spot on. I'd check your syringe for accuracy and the amount of water added to the vials and track down why there's a difference. I have to borrow a friends salifert kit to verify that my red sea is the one that's accurate over the hanna.
I hope that helps.