If you are very careful about measurements and dosing amounts, you will find that unless water changes are messing with the demand ratio (very common), the ratio of my DIY (e.g., BRS) will be quite close to 1:1 unless you use a sulfur denitrator.
Folks who say it is not are often not measuring long enough or carefully enough ( e.g., assuming two dosing pumps match, measuring over only a few days, etc.). Some who have claimed it is not 1:1 for their tank have found, when checking carefully, that it is close to 1:1.
FWIW, the smaller your daily demand, the more likely is that it deviates from 1:1 because the known very minor deviations become more significant (e.g., changes in nitrate level impact alk and not calcium, etc.).
Also, obviously, any additions of calcium or alk in other ways will alter the apparent demand ratio. Topping off with tap water, is a common cause.
FWIW, here's a detailed discussion of this issue:
When Do Calcium and Alkalinity Demand Not Exactly Balance? by Randy Holmes-Farley - Reefkeeping.com
http://reefkeeping.com/issues/2004-12/rhf/index.htm