welcome to the forum, and my sympathies on the loss. that hurts to hear.
based on the above detail, you changed 10 gallons on a 65 gal tank ... i’m estimating 50-55 gal net volume (assuming no sump). so the change ratio is roughly closer to 20-30%.
what caught my attention right away is that you let yr RO/DI water sit as-is, and you mix yr salt just
prior to the water change ... am i understanding this correctly??
if yes, how long do you let the new batch mix?? myself, i premix my salt and R/O water in a large plastic barrel at
least several days before using (plus, i have the benefit of an immediate reservoir for any emergency).
that new batch may not have been properly mixed yet.
respectfully,
rick