Hello, reviving this thread because i have caught an isopod nearly identical to the OP's pictures, and wondered if anyone has any thoughts on ID or plan of attack.
The tail looks 100% cirolanid. The eyes, as described in the OP's isopod, look kind of halfway between the two species. I tend to believe this guy is parasitic though.
Tank is 3.5 months old, 29 gallon with ~35lbs of pacific live rock from LFS, 3 fish. I first spotted an isopod scurrying around a rock during feeding time. I have not observed one attached to a fish, but I have seen an unexplained little scratch on my clownfish.
The next night I tried to catch one using bait and a trap like described elsewhere. Sure enough this guy appeared on the sand bed immediately after I poured a little food into the tank. I was able to snatch him in turkey baster.
The way he was poised on the sand bed says parasite to me. He was sitting still like lying in wait and his posture looked like attack mode ready to pounce on something.
I pretty much plan to try the bait and trap two or three more times and hopefully not catch any more! Just wanted to share my experience, thanks for any thoughts.