I am going to update this thread because I have spent three days getting my butt kicked and I might have it figured out and a hundred other threads just stop once it is fixed, or they gave up. I scoured the lfs in my area and found a reeflink. I went to set it up and the previous owner had it linked to their account. I Waited overnight for customer service to get in and remove it and they did. I had to load, update and program this thing for three hours because it would get to a point and timeout.
The time it worked was when I followed the following:
1. Plug reeflink in with only the USB connected (no power or Ethernet)
2. Format SD card
3. Update firmware
4. Select "wifi". I tried to hardwire it thinking it would be more reliable and it froze and failed in several different ways .
5. Load each light individually by connecting USB cable to each one and loading.
6. Import schedule and program lights. Final step was I had to set the time and program again.
7. Sign out of ecosmart live as fast as possible and hope both of them stayed right and didn't get corrupted .
More to follow at 830pm when I will see if they shut off correctly.