Yea, a wife MIGHT help

I do travel at least once a month and I'm gone for about a week. My wife does not want to touch my tank except to feed my fish SO I have some automation which helps almost eliminate water changes. I have a mixed reef with mostly LPS and some softies and I dose all for reef, calcium and brightwell restor, that keeps everyone happy. Lights are programmed and I change the filter before I go anywhere.
If you dose, that will help, you can get a n auto feeder too.
If you really wanted full automation, go with an Apex system. You will drop alot of bennies but if you are gone weeks at a time, it could save your tank. Also make sure you have someone you trust to go over to your place and help if some thin does go wrong.
If you are a true baller

, you can get a web cam and look at your tank when ever you want