My ATO container is a 2 gallon water jug like goes in drinking water office coolers. The bulkhead is the bottom portion of a toilet fill kit. Not many realize it but the portion that is connected to the water supply and screws into the bottom of the toilet tank is a small bulkhead connector. You simply saw off everything above the inside flange. Then I use a float switch inside the sump pump compartment, and another float switch inside the RODI tank to turn the RODI off and on. So... my tank (actually the sump) is ATO gravity feed from my 2 gallon RODI tank, and my 2 gallon RODI tank is ATO from the RODI system ... My float switches are DIY and use micro-switches out of a cannibalized copy machine. They turn on and off 1/4" pipe servo valves intended for air systems (air systems are wet so they do fine and are cheaper). You can get those from McMasterCarr.
Many of us have an old toilet fill valve in a junk box, .. well.. drum roll.. you have a small bulkhead connector and didn't even know it... wink.. and it will pressure fit lots of small sized tubes at the input side.
The float switches are made of 1/4" thick acrylic sheet cut and heat formed with pill bottle floats. One arm of acrylic hinges on another piece that has the micro-switch and as it reaches the fill mark contacts the normal closed contacts to kill power to the servo. It takes two micro-switches per float so you have both, a full turn off the water level, and a low start to fill level. If you don't do that your servo will chatter because it will turn on and off constantly, plus that will short cycle your membrane and not be giving you the best water. We want as little of the "first start" membrane water as is reasonable.
You better know what you are doing... you can flood your house when you are gone a few days... (being a retired machine design engineer has it's perks).