In my experience, pocillipora is very robust. It seems to sale through almost anything. Montipora is very robust too. In my experience, they are the toughest of the SPS. I find that birds nests grow really fast but if you have a fast shift in ALK concentration like greater than 1, it can deep six the birds nests.
Some acropora are pretty robust. Oddly enough, acropora can look dead for weeks and then claw their way back (or at least a seemingly dead part of them can).
I would suggest getting a variety of inexpensive and reputedly tough specimens and see how it goes.
But you need to have your conditions set up first. You want relatively low nutrient levels for nitrates and phosphates. You want high flow about 40 times or more. You want your lighting pretty bright and best to have it measured for PAR. And you want to be set up to maintain stable parameters: especially salinity and ALK,