i like SE's for several reasons.
-they spread light out better instead of straight down
-better selection of ballast/bulb combinations
-ALOT more variety of bulbs available
-ALOT cheaper
-different types of reflectors and many more types available to choose from
-dont run nearly as hot as DE bulbs do.
you rarely ever see anyone with a large tank run DE bulbs (180g and over). and you rarely ever see anyone run 400W DE bulbs. you see plenty of people run 400w SE's though. DE bulbs pack a punch of intensity straight down which alot of people dont like.
only benefit i can see to running a DE bulb is if someone likes to have that pendant look with a complete open top. granted you can do that with SE's too, but i dont think i've seen many set ups like that, that are easy to set up with SE's.
basically, go with a DE pendant if you are a "plug and play" type of person, and go with SE if you are more DIY and want to tweak your lighting to your preferences.