Hey Carl, Ocellaris clownfish of all colors are generally great choices for reef tanks. They're relatively healthy and hardy, have great personalities, and get along well with other mixed reef fishes.
Carl, you might try doing a google search for aquarium fish compatibility. There are at least a few websites selling fish that also have fish compatibility charts.
The differences I see in temperament I chalk up to gender. The female is more “inquisitive” when my hand is in the tank, gets more inquisitive as she ages.
Both are not aggressive to their tank mates, other than the occasional thats my food or your too close chase off.