I'm not sure why your calcium is high, perhaps some others could comment. I typically don't worry about my calcium levels but normally mine are in normal range most of the time. As for your ph probe and assuming it is accurate I would shoot for a lower reactor ph, like 6.6-6.8, I prefer the large aragonite like the TLF reborn. You can also test your effluent to insure your media is being dissolved properly. Your effluent should have an alkalinity of 20-25dkh, it may be slightly lower and be fine too. How often do you check your calcium & what test kit do you use?