Hi Evan,
my opinions ...
slow down or you're going to run into a world of hurt. Do less, not more, and tolerate some algae for a while.
Toss the PH test kit, the only reliable way to test PH is with a calibrated probe and the only safe way to alter PH is by letting outdoor air inside. It's rarely a real problem so just ignore PH for now.
As was said above, the PH buffer spiked Alk and did harm to this stylo or birdsnest.
Don't dose a lot of stuff at this stage, you're feeding the algae and then trying to reduce nutrients by dosing NOPOX. NOPOX is strong stuff, and will drive nutrients down quickly if you have a good skimmer. You can't skip the ugly phase and have healthy corals without some manual labor, or algae eaters, usually both.
As far as KH, I recommend very low, between 7 and 8, because it's much easier to maintain than higher Alk. A spike in Alk from 7 to 8 does much less harm than a spike from 8 to 9 or 9 to 10. As mentioned above, lower alk is also better for lower nutrients. If your salt is high in Alk then you may have to change salts.
I don't know what your future plans are but if you want to grow other SPS, in particular Acropora, you need to get the stability mindset down pat. It's difficult, or it was for me anyway, I'm tempted to always change things and every change can lead to another problem.