I've never kept them with Chromis, but I've got a trio of azure damsels (Chrysiptera hemicyanea) in my 65 gallon reef. They get along for the most part, keeping their bickering to themselves - but they have been proper jerks to just a couple of newer introductions: a social fairy wrasse and a royal gramma, of all things. I've heard good things about Allen's damsels and Talbot's damsels, and plan to add a trio of the latter when I ever get the big tank up and running. Don't forget that clownfish are also damsels . . . Abudefduf and Dascyllis damsels (think Sgt. Majors and Dominos / two-three-or-four-striped damselfish) have a reputation for getting big and very cranky.
For myself, although damsels are bright and active, hovering and darting just above the rocks, they're only part of the diversity that drew me to the salty side. My tank contains everything from wrasses and dartfish who cruise just below the surface to gobies on the sandbed; from the slim shrimpgobies to the billboard bodies of dwarf angelfish.
~Bruce