Is it normal for my clownfish to almost constantly "attack" the other clownfish?
I just bought 2 tank raised 9ocellaris clownfish, one a little larger than the other. After a day or 2 I noticed the larger one almost seeking out the other to poke at it. It died after 3 days, not sure if it was sick, water parameters off, or if the other fish just jabbed it into a psychotic breakdown. Since I wanted a pair I got another ocellaris today, just barely smaller than the mean one, and it's doing the same thing. It started off jabbing at it while it was floating in the bag. I tried putting the larger one in a clear container in the tank to keep I separated for a few hours, but after about an hour of them both swimming freely in the tank it's terrorizing the new fish just like it did the other one.
I understand some aggression is normal, but I don't want to lose another fish to a bully, plus I just feel bad for the poor little guy. The smaller fish seems fine for now. I am wondering if maybe I should try to trade the bully in for another clown or just give them time.
little boogers... so much for cute little "nemo"

