ok question. i have an adult pair picasso that i bought that were suppose to be breeding( fyi no proof of breeding my stupidity) however dispire my futile attempts have not breed. female is 3 inch with male almost same size,granted things have been off in my system but recently have been improving and have noted a huge increase in activity in my coules except for this one picasso pair. they act like a married couope of 50 years, they just eat and basically suspend themselves in the pot side by side, no pot cleaning, no rubbing no shaking no nothing just stare out from the pot. is this normal. should i split them up an add a small male to the female and turn the large male , female. or should i give it more time since tank has become more stable. should i put a smaller pot in there. i tried doing tiles abour a month back but then they just swam in the open part of tank never going near the tiles?. what tricks have y guys used to spark the fire back in their eyes lol.