I believe a lot a peoples issues that arise with starting tanks with dry rock stem from the dozens of methods out there on the best way to cycle the rock vs the tried and true established method when using LR of just sticking it in the tank and waiting for the natural cycle.
I'll always be an advocate for dry rock and would argue that it wins on "efficiency" in pretty much all categories. Heck ive been able to cycle a new tank with dry rock, 1 bottle of bacteria and ammonia dosing to 1-2ppm and cycling down to zero in less than 12hours in under a week. Its later tank husbandry methods and tank treatment that determine the health of rock and tank as whole and whether individuals deem using dry rock as a success.
If you haven't seen Roberto Denadai's tanks then you need take the time and check him out, he uses dry rock and doesn't even "cycle" the tank. He has some of the best looking tanks and he continuously proves the doubters wrong. He's inspired me in my latest build which uses dry rock and only corals for seeding bacteria.
Roberto Denadai