@mcarrol Your soapbox is exactly why I like this site...people believe in helping those who ask for help and are working to help themselves and the future of the hobby, not just come asking for people to do it all for them. Nothing happend fast is exactly why I am here. I have been a member here since July...and on other reef forums as well....and it wasnt till last week that I had a fish tank even in my house. All of that time was spent reading what people had posted, what questions they were asking...and then posting some of my own. Getting the confidance to even attempt this build, before I spend the first penny on the tank.
You are correct, simple is what is important. I have grown up with freshwater tanks, so taking care of those is easy and second nature to me. My wife is slowly picking up on simple tank maintenance. When this whole first endevor started she prefased that I needed to learn about what I was doing and then needed to show her the simple and general stuff, leaving the technical to me. My vision for her was feeding, turning on and off the lights (little did I know I can maybe control them automatically) and the simple basic stuff...where on my end I was watching the test strips, making the water, and the like. Simple works for that, and simple also works because if I can keep more of it simple I can get my 3yr old involved more with the daily "care" and upkeep of the tank. I came into this with the sterotypical outlook that salt tanks were very hard to mantain, and I have learned that they are not as difficult as it seems, but I have spent the majority of my time with fish. At 3yrs old there is no way that he can appreciate the slow groth of a coral frag, so that never entered my mind to start even looking at now. Ultimately I would like to have a nice mixed reef with fish, corals, and all that good stuff that just makes guests step back and say "wow", which is why I seem to feel that a sump/fuge is necessary. If I am going to take the time to set the tank up I may as well set it up right and ahead. of schedule. If I am gong to need to drill for a sump/fuge when I get into corals I may as well drill it now and get the sump/fuge set up so when the time is ready that is one less thing to have to do....one again going back to the while simple thing. I don't know the eventual outlook of the tank, I dont want to plan that far ahead and be stuck in that if I decide to change. I want to be able to go into a pet store and say "OOO...I want that one" and take it home, not have to do the quick mental math of if the tank can handle the bio load of another fish or invert or coral. Do i see myself being an inpulse fish buyer....no.....but if there is this fish that the wife wants (and she has been awful giving to allow this tank in the first place) then I want to be able to put it in there so long as it is compatable with who is already thre.
As for the quipment look, I know that there will have to be some thing there, but there are options to minimise that. There are the surface power heads that I can take and fabricate a way to divert the waterflow some...or I can just do the standard and use the maget/suction cup mound on the side of the tank. My fear is that a heater, skimmer, power filter (maybe, can-o-worms here I know), UV filter hanging will take away from the look of the tank. Is it really a possinility, not really...but I am taking the time to do this so I want to do it right. I have no problems waiting a week or two to get it set up so I get it set up right, I dont want to have to partially drain the tank, or completly drain it and put the fish into storage tubs with water and a power head, because I changed my direction and now I need to drill the tank or something along those lines.