Me too, I agree with you both
But who, among all of us reefers with more or less experience, have not done things against what we were told when we started the hobby
I understand part of his problem now, by mistake or not, he bought more clowns then he should and have a wish to have a Dory.
And sometimes, even when we get over our proud and decide to remove some of them from our tank, it’s not easy to send them back to store again or find someone to keep them for us
So we look for ways to try to fix it.
Regarding Dory, I guess he realized by now that it’s not a good thing to do but he is trying to see if there is somehow someway to have her [emoji4]
1st Space
We all know tangs needs space
He also knows it by now
But...
He thinks that wile Dory is a baby, space may not be a problem ( like I thought at first one year back)
So
why not have a baby Dory in his small tank and when she gets bigger he upgrades for a bigger tank? Or find a new home for her and buy another baby Dory?
In my poor opinion ( and I thought on doing the same because of my little girls pressure to have her back [emoji4] ) I decided not to do it because....
1st
I hated the loss feeling when my baby Dory died and I swear myself that I would do everything to not feel It again ( this feeling you only get It when you cross through t ) so I don’t believe he would feel comfortable give away his Dory after she gets bigger [emoji4]
2nd
Blue Tangs are known to be hard keeping, they are not easy to care ( stress is enough to them to get itch I think )
And small places cause stress to Blue Tangs so, Tangs get sick Easley and being in a small place I guess they become sick more often
3rd
Babies fish, like humans , are not as strong as adults, so a Baby Dory in a new and recently cycling tank would have lots of problems to resist to Amônia or Nitrites or any other natural variation of a parameter that frequently happens, when starting a reef tank
So, this were my conclusions after months of readings that took me to decide not to have a Dory in my small Micro Reef Tank” a tinny tank ;-)
Now it’s my little girl and even my wife that are asking me to upgrade to a bigger one so we have Dory Back and it’s me who is asking them to wait, till I feel secure enough to hold a bigger tank
But, I am not 18 [emoji4] I have a half century life experience that makes me realize that rush is not a good thing in this hobby