I’m not sure how water changes could keep up with Calc, Alk and Mag, unless you were running a FOWLR or a tank with one or two frags of SPS/LPS. I have a mixed reef 90 gallon tank (no where near heavy with SPS/LPS, (and no clam)) and I’m dosing 55 to 60 mls per day of Alk and Calc.
You need to test. And the best test kit, in my book, is the Red Sea Pro kit that comes with all three tests. This will tell you where you stand.
This is my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt; to start dosing, I’d do the ml equivalent of 1/3 the DT gallons you have. I think this is a good starting point, and once you begin testing, you can adjust from there. As an example, if you have a 60 gallon DT, a starting dosing level of each Alk and Calc should be 20 mls each.
Once you figure the dose it takes to keep your tank at the recommended levels of Alk and Calc, then you can cut your testing down to every week or two.