Siphons rely on gravity to work. With your tanks at the same height, you will be able to maintain the same level, but I don't think it is going to work with a standard overflow like you have drawn as I think the water level in the 2 tanks is not going to be at the optimal level. You could just put a u-tube between the tanks, but any problems with that and you have a flood. I assume you are going to drain from the DT to the sump, then to the fuge via some sort of u-tube siphon, then back into the tank via pump from the fuge? If one of your tanks was 6" higher then the other, it would be a lot easier. For this to work like you want it, I think you need to drill a whole at the desired water level of both tanks and run a flexible pipe between them. With that, you are not worried about losing siphon and having a flood. Personally, I would lose the 2nd tank. If you really want more volume, try to find a bigger single tank.