1/4 of an amp across your heart will stop your heart which usually means you're dead....but what pushes the current is voltage....you need voltage to make current dangerous.....so as voltage increase with said current the risk increases. What protects you is the resistance of your skin. This resistance varies greatly person by person, skin condition, clean, dirty, wet, etc. 50V is kind of lower threshold but I'm done trying to explain.
Plenty of people get struck by lightning and survive but it doesn't make it a good idea to go stand in a thunderstorm and try to get hit. I thought electric catfish were from other parts of the world but I know nothing about them...but I doubt you got hit with an amp at 350V.
As for everything else...I offered up if you needed explanation on parallel wiring let me know and you replied with the wizard.
I offered based on lots of experience that you need dimming....you don't buy it....I don't know what else to tell you other than read the plethora of threads out there and come to your own conclusions...I was trying to be helpful and you don't buy any of it so please do some research rather than ask for help and then argue with the answers you get.
Good luck