I am curious, trying to learn the ways of the tanks and what people consider "Established". I am finding a lot of posts saying "nems in established tanks only".. and I think clarification to what established means will help a lot to me and other members, newbies alike.
I feel like even though my upgraded tank is almost 4 months old, everything seems stable and no deaths (Aside from a possible serpent star), corals growing well, I feel like it's established, but more experienced reefers would say it's not established until at least 6-months to a year or more, or if it has coraline, or something else.
I think that's in that context it's more about getting things stable and you learning how you system works. How to know if something is off, a routine for maintenance, fine tuning dosing, feeding schedule, most importantly no more huge changes. Many times when we first set up a system we make a lot of changes if something isn't working right or not the way you hoped it would. Things like removing sand bed, adding more rock, changing lights, upgrading the skimmer, adding a bunch of fish, changing salt, messing around with dosing, and on and on and on.......
The point is to me stability is more important than a calendar. I think people put an number on it because after 6 months to a year you got the bugs worked out. Made your big upgrades, added the fish you want, found that sweet spot in the lighting. All that stuff.
So if you want to add a nem ask your self:
Am I going to make any big changes anytime soon?
Can I test my water ?
Is my lighting right?
Do I plan adding a bunch of fish?
Then ask your self if your system and YOU are ready for a nem.
Also, doesn't have to be a nem. Could be SPS, star fish, hard to keep fish, or anything like that.