Here's my theory, take it with a grain of salt though.
Each head is a unique polyp and an independent animal(to a degree). They are only connected by the skeleton. Since acans are so tighty packed, they seem like they are interconnected. Some LPS like favias or chalices are interconnected all the way, while others like candy canes, duncans, and branching euphyllia have no connection and therefore you should try to feed each head. Acans are somewhere between these in my mind. You can see this by fragging acans, favias and branching euphyllia and observing how long they need to heal. Personally, I always feed the ones on the edge. These are the ones that are growing and need the food the most in my mind. (Note acan Lords and acan echinada are different. Lords are not as connected as echinadas)
With coral there doesn't seem to be an issue of over feeding. I personally see my acans with feeders out all the time. I see it as a sign of good health.