First fish anxiety

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All you pros have it down to a science and as much as you can learn from your posts and no matter how many articles you read or youtube videos you watch... I 100 percent underestimated the anxiety I would feel the first 80 hours after getting my first fish..... had to share.

My dt and qt tanks are cycling and progressing well. Was time to get my first fish. Knew I was going with a couple clown fish. Really wanted something more exotic over standard ones but faced with a dilemma. In the back of my mind i hear "first fish you're gonna kill them" have never kept fish and had zero clue what to expect. Did I do everyhing correct? What if I missed something critical? Decided to go with a snowflake clownfish.

I get to lfs with my cooler in hand, cold out some wanted to protect my new friends in transit, pick out the two clowns I like after 20 minutes or watching amd having lfs feed them to make sure they are eating. All good, I pay and start driving home (15 min) and two people Honk. I'm driving slow because in don't know if bouncing around will scare my fish.

I'm doing ttm so have tank 1 ready to go and now 73 hours of anxiety.

Bring fish to temp in tank for 20. Ok still swimming and don't seem to be breathing heavy. Time to drip acclimate. Do that for 45 min the whole time starring at the fish like i known what I'm looking for... ok still good. Now rubber meet the road.... add to tank. Oh look they are swimming around and don't look completly stressed. I must have done something right.

I stare at my fish for 4 hours just observing in facination. Hmmm is this behavior normal are they ok? Will they survive the night? 1am i decide to see if they will eat something. Nope. Ok they say expected. Sleep time.

Wake up at 5am wondering if they are ok. Rush downstairs and sigh of relief they are still swimming. Whew....

Get up and attempt to feed again. Nothing. Oh well. I stare at ammonia badge and it hits me. How long for ammonia to spike? They are in tank for next 3 days and I don't know what to expect. Nervousness sets in but I goto work.

Drive home day 1 and they are doing well after 24 hours. Still not eating in try pellets, seaweed, mysis and flakes. Even lettuce. Nothing.. how long will they last without food? But they look ok. Stare for hours and goto bed.

Next day at work I'm nervous. Are they ok? Is ammonia spiking? Are they stressed? Floating to the top ? Get home that night and all seems well. They are even starting to eat a little. Whew. One more day of unexpected to go. Last day in tank one. Water looks dirty... that ok? Just make it through to rank change.

Buy nest camera so i can keep an eye on at work feeling better. Get home and ammonia still looks good. Fish eating like crazy and time for tank change. Goes smooth and they are set for next 72 hours.

That first 72 hours not knowing what to expect was insane. A new experience and learned a lot. Next 72 will be easy if they remain healthy.

Fun times and having a blast

Named them buttercup and westley
 
Haha I was the same when I got my first fish! I would analyze every little thing she did and start looking it up on the internet thinking something was wrong with her. Months later and she’s still perfectly healthy but I still get so anxious over my fish especially when I’m gone for a while. I got a nest camera a couple days ago and find myself obsessively checking it whenever I can - at a stoplight etc. So youre definitely not alone!!
 
Haha I was the same when I got my first fish! I would analyze every little thing she did and start looking it up on the internet thinking something was wrong with her. Months later and she’s still perfectly healthy but I still get so anxious over my fish especially when I’m gone for a while. I got a nest camera a couple days ago and find myself obsessively checking it whenever I can - at a stoplight etc. So youre definitely not alone!!
Sweeet. Just find I'm being obsessive. It's comical. Will get out my good camera and macro lens another day but these are my little guys
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You sound like you are doing fine. I by no means am a old reefer, as I got into it when my daughter was born 8 years ago. Something we could grow and do together. Point is, I still have my first fish! Also a clown. They are a resilient little fish. She has been through more crap then she ever should have, but keeps on going.

Take your time, enjoy, treat them well, and you’ll have them for years to come!
 
You sound like you are doing fine. I by no means am a old reefer, as I got into it when my daughter was born 8 years ago. Something we could grow and do together. Point is, I still have my first fish! Also a clown. They are a resilient little fish. She has been through more crap then she ever should have, but keeps on going.

Take your time, enjoy, treat them well, and you’ll have them for years to come!
Thanks. Thoroughly enjoying the process. After a month if setup really nice to have fish even if they don't go into tank for another 6 weeks
 
Great story and thanks for sharing it!

My first fish experience was similar and even though it was 25 years ago I still remember that feeling like it was yesterday!

Good luck !
 
I definitely had that anxiety and still do. But I'm getting more and more comfortable. Wait till you have to do your first FW dip. Same kind of thing. My advise would be to match the salinity of your QT tank to that of the bag water. I killed my first two fish trying to drip acclimate them from 1.013 to 1.026 in just an hour and a half. At the time I didn't realize fish stores commonly have very low salinity.
 
That anxiety doesn't go away, lol. I've had my 2 clowns for a 4-5 months and I'm still worrying that something is going to happen to them due to my inexperience! But so far, they're persevering like troopers! Now I'm starting with corals... and the nervousness starts over, lol.
 

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