Travis, a bit more info might be helpful to those who want to offer advice.
How big is your tank?
How much flow do you have now?
That is, how many gph is your return pump and your wavemakers?
Flow is the total gph of your return + all wavemakers / gallon size of the DT (only the DT). I have a 50g cube and my return from the sump isn't all that strong. But I have a big Reef Breeders RP-M extra thin wavemaker running as low a reate as I can along with 2 small Current wavemakers. IMHO, the more random and varied you can make the flow pattern the better. The few soft corals that I have that extend up off the rocks do move around quite a bit. But I thing just like corals need to acclimate to water quality and light, they can acclimate to flow over time as well. Don't rush to judgement if polyps aren't extending. Give them time.