I would just plan out how much flow you want from your returns first, then just use a single gate or ball valve near the return pump to finely tune it to where you want.
Personally, I only use the return to get flow to and from the sump, not to create flow within the tank. In tank flow is the job of powerheads.
If you go with your plan of having 9 different returns and valves, it is going to take a long time to dial them all in. When you turn valve #1, it's going to put more pressure on the other valves and give them more flow. Then when you turn valve #2 it will put more pressure on valve #1 and probably alter the flow. In theory it should be able to work and you'll be able to eventually get all the outlets to where you want them, but in practice this is going to be time consuming.
If I was going to go the route of having multiple returns from the return pump, I would set them all up and use the adjustment on the DC pump to control the amount of flow coming from them. Add in some RFG nozzles if needed, but keep it as simple as you can.