I do not really have a secret because they are all different. Some I have no issues like the ORA Red goniopora while others are still a struggle. Gonis come from all different zones, different depths and have different sized polyps.
I just see so many post where people think they are all the same. No and the hard part is identifying what type you have too. I have had marine biology class and part of it was identifying coral and gonis are hard.
This means they also have different feeding requirement and it is hard to figure out what they feed on.
They have different feeding methods too. Some feed directly from the water column, some use slime nets to pull in food while others I believe have no feeding response and may be able to feed through absorption.
I do think food is a key to allot of them. Even the ones like the ORA that seems to be ok with no food still benefits from them. If you can get them to feed on food there is less need for zooxanthellae which are brown. If the coral has less zooxanthellae it will show more of its colorful pigments. This is the same for all corals and seems something we have got away from in the hobby is feeding.
The hard part is getting them to feed. I like to add something to the water first before feeding. I have been hearing polyp lab booster is nice for this but I have not tried it but plan too. I add a little food and amino acids for this a few minutes before feeding. As for foods I use allot of different things: a few I use are reef roids, gonipower, coral frenzy, coral dust, cyclopeese, amino acids and bacteria.
The one thing I will say is goni success is measured in years not months. If they receive partial nutrition in can take a while to starve to death. Polyp extension also can be a sign they are starving in my opinion. A coral stretches to create more surface area to get more light. So to me polyp extension is not always a sign of good health but it is also not always a sign of bad health either again it depends on the Goni. The hardest part is the first several weeks because gonis hate being moved. Then it seems the next hard part is a year plus. some seem to make it a year or longer and then just die. That is what goniopora stokesi does. It will live a year and sometime almost 2 years and then just receed. Another struggle is since they come from different places on the reef it can be a challenge to keep different varieties in our tank. Challenge with all corals really.
My point really is gonis are challenging and several can have completely different requirements.
The pic below is one I struggled with:
It is a branching goni.
Below is a ORA that I bought when they first released them and has been fragged a ton:
The one just behind the ORA is several years old and been fragged several times.
Matter of fact they were both just fragged about a week before this pic was taken.
The farthest back is a alveopora that grew hugeover a couple of years and then I almost lost it but now I have two frags of it and it is growing again.