I had a hydra26 on a deeper tank so my settings won't really work for your tank, but the brs video shows an lps setup for a 40breeder ( 17" tall) with 2 primeHD's so that would be a close enough match to your tank.
10" above the water
This is what I would use until you rent a par meter to find the exact fit for your tank.
Your Ph will generally be lowest in the morning before lights com on (barring you don't have a refugium light running at night) and highest around the peak light point of your day. Generally every tank is different. If you don't have a constant ph monitor I would test ph first thing in the morning before lights come on and at the peak lighting point of the day. That should give you an idea of where your high and low ph are.
Ramping up the intensity of your lighting schedule may also increase Ph due to increased photosynthesis. So keep testing.
Also what test do you use for your Phosphates and how precise is it?
You should also be aware fixing your problems will not always save dying corals, sometimes they're just too far gone. However fixing your issues will defiantly prevent any further issues, so don't let any losses discourage you.