Can you please help me understand why you can't qt your own fish? There is no replacement for qt, and disease is not the primary reason. That is why I phrase it the way I do, if you are going to add any fish to a tank full of fish who know you, that fish should also know you. People have contrived the idea of QT into being some sort of hospital. Imo putting fish in the sump to qt is still 100÷ better than dumping them into the tank.
The clownfish isn't only hardy because it is tank bred, the fact that it has been tank bred and raised for generations make it a truly special fish with no equal but perhaps the more important factor is the fact that they are almost always the fish fish added and also pretty aggressive. Their aggression is masked by the fact that they don't tend to dart but rather threaten other fish with their body movement. More importantly though they are accostomed to protecting the territory the size of the anemone they host but given time and space I have seen them dominate 100+ gallon systems.
But yeah, you asked about fish recommendations so I would point you to one of my favorite fish, the fanged tooth blenny, most notably the Canary Blenny. They have also been tank bred for a long time and are passive swimmers and full of personality. Very similar to the midas blenny but in a smaller package with less strut and the midas blenny is a percher. There is also the royal basslet which is a bit more shy of a swimmer.