Hi, I posted about the UV option before reading all the rest, sorry to hear you lost your fish

What were the types?
This is an internal catridge UV filter. Directional Nozzel at top is an outlet bubble spray, UV tube is inside the filter.
I know cartridges are not usually used for marine aquariums, as the more expensive marine aquariums come with a sump to put things like this in and rely on a skimmer. But I am not in that position financially, and I have spare equipment from my freshwater aquariums. Besides, my wife would kill me if I started drilling holes in our furniture to do a DIY sump! Well on second thoughts she needs my salary, so maybe just broken knee-caps
My new tank came with a built in filter and another chamber for a second filter, so I made use of the space with a UV cartridge. There are small gaps that allow my filters outlet nozzels to spray directly into main area of the tank.
But it sounds like you have what you need now. Are you going to keep the aerator going to make sure your water is always oxygenated? I'd suggest so, especially if you can get a very fine air stone for micro-bubbles.
I don't know why more marine hobbyist don't use one, after all anyone who has ever snorkled above a reef (I've done it off Australia, Portugal and Japan) know from the wave effects that the water is constantly full of bubbles, so it is what would naturally occur. My Clowns and Damsel seem to love playing in the bubbles!