I've been playing with chalices for a handful of years now and my parameters are very similar to yours. The only time I've ever encountered problems with any of my chalices is when I get too busy at work and don't get the opportunity to feed regularly. My experience, and I've experienced bleaching as well as tissue recession, is to feed my way through the issue. I rescued a BGM from nearly white in color to a fully colored up colony with great growth in a month or two. When I first got the BGM it was so weak that it wouldn't eat mysid and I rescued through daily feeding with Fauna Marin zoa food (a very fine particle food). How often are you feeding?