According to what you want of course, but I'd be hard pressed not to use the drain that comes with the tank. (Get a new tank if you want a new tank, after all! [emoji106])
As was said already, drain size isn't much or a factor - it dictates noise levels as much as anything else. At 1.5", your drain should be about as quiet as possible.
As for flow, you only need 2-4x your display's volume, or between 80gph and 160gph. 200gph would be more than plenty.
Those are actual flow numbers for your tank, BTW, not the flow rating on the pump. Depending on the plumbing you need to get the water from the pump to the tank, a pump rated 300-500gph will probably do the trick.