Easy peasy......
Take the hose going into the DI canister, plug it into the bottom of the valve. Run one side of the valve into the DI canister, the other to the flush valve.
Now take the splitter, and unplug the in from the flush valve and push that into the splitter(the side with one end), take the line from the valve, plug that into the splitter, and the regular waste line(the one that was plugged into the flush valve).
All done.
Now when you go to flush the unit, you turn the T valve so all the water goes to waste, nothing goes into the DI. Turn on your TDS meter, when the TDS comes down to 3(I think thats what you said?), turn the T valve so water now goes into the DI.
If you need pictures to help, let me know.