It is aiptasia, but does not need the instant kill like many say. I'd put a peppermint shrimp or three in as the lowest impact solution. If you do want to use a product, Aiptasia X from Red Sea works really well, though you have to squirt it directly on the nem. I'd avoid the boiling water trick, personally. Too much room for collateral damage, and not a guaranteed way to kill it.
Aiptasia do spread reasonably quickly, but they are not the doom critters they are often made out to be. Take your time and do it right. They won't overrun a tank in a day, unless you try to get rid of them improperly.