Not getting the point you're trying to make here.
I guess I was sorta saying that you can feed natural foods and have a balanced tank.
It does happen – often seemingly in spite of the numbers.
So feeding is a fine choice to proceed with.
I suspect that a continuous source of available nitrogen is more important than the nitrogen's form or concentration in ppm's....even more important than the relative concentration of PO4.
Also, there are potential downsides of direct nitrate dosing – neither feeding nor dosing is a no-brainer.
We gotta understand some of the ins and outs either way we go.
Rinsing food is useful if your food has a phosphate-based preservatives on it....I've heard seafood from the grocery (intended for humans, but sometimes also good for our tanks!) could have this.
Rinsing foods that have no added preservatives doesn't do much good, especially in a tank with corals which will like every little drop and morsel as food.
Nobody, however, is recommending to repeat this:
I dumped a bunch of mysis and brine 1 cube each with packaged water
Ultimately there's probably no harm from a dump like that in a decent sized tank, but
nothing good happens fast in a reef tank, right?

(In a smaller tank you could cause an ammonia spike –

no good at all!!)
Just a little more everyday kind of feeding of fish is what you'd want. And better quality food if that's possible.
An auto-feeder can actually help due to the regularity of feedings – even if you don't increase the overall amount of food going into the system.
But an auto-feeder also makes it much easier to make systematic changes to your feeding quantity – up or down – when you have it automated and have a predetermined dosage rate. (Eheim's feeders make this pretty easy to accomplish in practice too.)