I read that thread too and one interesting point is that he felt like his heater sizes were small enough not to cook the tank, or that was my impression anyway. One take away is something BRS has said for a long time; don’t use glass heaters to begin with. A heater controller is a must but you’ll find plenty of threads about controller failures (controller itself or temp probe).
Thus, IMO, the only way you can really start to engineer out as many potential problems as possible is with multiple failsafes and that leads me to a good tank controller. Using heaters as an example I would put 2 on their own controllers which are then plugged into an Apex (or other). This way you could be on a cruise somewhere with no internet and the tank would deal with it by itself. A heater could fail on or off, the controller could fail on or off, and you’d still have a third backup of the controller shutting the outlet(s) down and sending a warning. In my case I’m using 2 separate electrical circuits as well so even if one breaker trips, the tank still has half its life support.
Thinking through all the heater failure possibilities is a great start because that’s the most common equipment failure. However, you need to think about everything. What if your return pump fails, how would you know on vacation? What if a dosing pump gets stuck on and starts dumping it all into your tank? [Low tech failsafe- only keep enough dosing solution in the reservoirs that won’t kill your tank and refill every few days]
A good controller can provide either failsafes or at least warnings against almost anything that can go wrong with your tank. Finally, plan for extended power outages. I didn’t the first time and there was little I could do; after exhausting all my UPS’s the rest was up to fate. Now I have a small generator and I’m planning to use plug in bubblers if I’m out of town (plus a neighbor that could intervene beyond the bubbler batteries).
As you plan, realize everything plugged into the tank WILL fail eventually. Ask yourself how bad it would be, how you would know before it’s too late, and have 1 or more plans for how to deal with it.