I've bought from reefcleaners.org. They were good and responsive. I'm not familiar with the idea that you will lose all of your snails - I've never run into that. Anyway,a s Dan mentions, you can order a smaller package, or you can mix and match to get the exact proportion of crabs and snails you would want. Personally I'd just go with the appropriate package for your size tank and call it done. I'd also dose with kalkwaser or whatever calc additive you prefer so that coraline algae covers the rock, which will look better and go a ways towards preventing green algae on the rocks. You could also think about getting a lawnmower blenny, once your tank matures some, if algae problems persist.
PS: Dan - I've met your avatar, Johnathan Goldsmith (aka the World's Most Interesting Man). Great guy and genuinely interesting.