I would agree for the most part that the chamber size doesn't really matter as long as the pump fits, however there are two other considerations I like to think about for this.
This section is where the water height will change due to evaporation. The smaller the chamber, the more often your ATO will come on to make this up, or the more often that you have to add water.
I also take the opportunity to add in an extra safety measure into the system. I size this chamber based off of how much extra water I could fit into my display if the drain were to get completely blocked. On the 90g I am building right now, I figure I have ~1.25" of space above the running water line, before the tank would actually overflow. That comes out to be a little under 4.5 gallons. So if I make the return pump section that size or smaller, it potentially could offset a catastrophe caused by a snail. Granted most setup have redundant drains to prevent that as well, but $#!+ happens.
On the other hand keep in mind that the more space you take up with the return, the less space you have for everything else in the sump. Always a compromise.