Thus, a true standard may need a real seawater matrix, which makes it much harder to do.
Thinking more about this, I have, in the past, when working on certain projects, developed a controlled ASW mixture where I was able to take a base ASW mixture without any alkalinity, calcium, or magnesium (apart from whatever was present as contaminants in the source salts, most of which were pretty darned pure), and then add arbitrary known amounts of alkalinity, calcium, and magnesium, plus pure RODI water as needed to achieve specific concentrations of "the big three", while maintaining a target final salinity of 35 PPT. It was a lot of work, but I was able to successfully and repeatably produce such standards. So, it is doable, but, as
@Randy Holmes-Farley said, it is quite difficult to do.
As far as strontium goes, it gets picked up by calcium test kits as though it were calcium, but on a molar basis, so since it's atomic mass is 87.62 vs. 40.078 for calcium, 10 PPM of strontium would inflate the calcium reading by 10 * 40.078 / 87.62 = 4.6 PPM.
For the purposes of the OP's question, my simpler recipe posted above works really well, IMHO.