Not necessarily anything you are doing wrong, just that your feed input is too much for the system/maintenance as it is.
Considering what you are describing, it looks like carbon dosing is not enough to deal with the excess nitrates without having a massive bacterial bloom.
Options:
1. Manually vacuuming the sand bed to remove detritus regularly will help keep nitrates down. Increase your WC's amount and/or frequency. Be patient, can take a few weeks to see significant results (consistency is important here).
2. Have you considered a refugium with Chaeto or an ATS? Either will also reduce PO4, too, so you will likely have to keep PO4 dosing if you wish to maintain 0.08 ppm
3. Another option is a denitrifying sulfur reactor, which shouldn't affect your PO4 level much (if at all). Just a Googled example (not pushing anyone's product here):
https://blog.marinedepot.com/2014/02/korallin-bio-denitrator-ultimate-low.html