Well for me it's not dying, I've been reef keeping for 5+ years, and just getting my feet wet.
I always take a minimalistic approach, say what you want but my 90 gallon tank runs with a plenum and a refugium. I grow beautiful corals of all kinds from the easiest leathers, to acropora, and rarely do I run the skimmer.
I don't have any reactors, and don't dump a bunch of carefully measured stuff in my tank on a regular basis.
I talk to people in the hobby, I belong to a local club, and share my experiences on a few forums.
I would rather trade you a couple of my best corals for one of yours, or hang out all day at a frag swap letting all my stuff go for 10 or 15 bucks, than drop $85.00 on a 1 inch frag of radioactive super polyp.
Nothing wrong with all the bells and whistles, I just don't need a perfect tank and for me, the more stuff there is to look after the more chances of failure. I think that is why some people get out of it, it becomes extremely complicated if you let it.
I will continue to keep it simple and continue to reach out to a couple new guys to give them a couple free easy to keep frags so they can build confidence and experience without going broke in the process. And if they have success they will hopefully become more advanced and pass it on...