Ok doc going to answer some of this here, Thanks for the input and i think im good with most/some of it.
1. The picture ive attached shows ALL 4 pipes coming from my tank. Both the 2 siphon drains and the 2 emergency overflow pipes. Two on the left that are emptying into the tank (one ALOT and the other is the trickle) and the two pipes in the center of the sump. Those are the emergency drain pipes. Those have NO water coming from them as they shouldn't i guess. Those pipes are exactly even with the Weirs/top of the overflows and the siphon drains are exactly 6 inches below them on both sides with strainers attached.
2. The only place i have BALL valves is right below the bottom of the tank. Picture attached. Not sure what you mean about ""The full siphon drain should have a gate valve on it after it enters into the sump"".
3. I do NOT have any gurgling once i adjust the 2 valves from the drain lines. The one of the left is fully open and the one on the right is about 80% open. this keeps them at the perfect level (mid strainer) and there is not noise
4. I will have to digest what you are talking about with the water height and flow to be able to respond intelligently (if at all possible) lol .
5. lastly, i have turned off the pump every night since i am using waste water at the moment to test the flow and leakage of the tank. with the pump turned off the water does not rise more than an inch or so from where you see the baffles (white things) at now. So if anything i am thinking i just dont have enough water in the sump??