It finally happened... I love my reef tank!

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When I first got into reefing several years ago I was seduced by the gorgeous tanks I would see on R2R and other forums, I thought "I want that in my living room!". I bought a 55" tall with a canister filter second hand, it came with the standard 2 clowns and some chromis and I was off! I didn't keep anything difficult coralwise, just some leathers and shrooms, but it was all going well enough and I decided it was time to invest and I bought my RS Reefer 425!

I was in love, I bought the dry rock and worked on my aquaucape, watched all the videos, labored over my custom plumbing, it must have been 3-4 months before I even put water in it. I thought about my tank day and night, it was SO exciting! I turned on the lights.. and that's when the fun stopped.

I think the 55" was a cake walk because it was an established tank, I expected my brand new dry rock build to be the same, but it was definitely NOT. The next 2 years were filled with pain, and death, and a battering to my bank account. I had all sorts of fish disease, coral disease, GHA, bubble algae, vermitids, cyano, and of course DINOS.. three GD TIMES! Along the way I bought every product, potion, and gadget that the internet told me I needed. But no matter how much time I put into it, the tank always looked like a disaster. My wife asked me numerous times "how long are you going to keep this up, I want that thing gone."

This thing I loved, that I obsessed over, it was now a millstone around my neck. Of course I had some brief success here and there to sustain me. But for the most part it sucked all my time, and money, and energy and at the end of the day I would sit there looking at it, disappointed in it, and feeling like a failure.

But I'd put too much in to turn back. I got a fish QT and a coral QT. I began testing the big 6 every week. I mapped out my PAR and started charting quarterly ICP results. I kept reading and learning from my mistakes. And I can't say exactly when it happened, but I was sitting on my couch the other evening noticing there wasn't a spec of algae on the rocks, the sand was white and beautiful, my fish were fat and happy, the corals had actually doubled and tripled in size.. oh my god.. my tank was beautiful! I finally had that gorgeous reef tank I dreamt about all those years ago!!

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I know after 3 years most people would have bigger corals, and giant colonies, that the tank still has a long way to go. But I wanted to share this for everyone else who is close to throwing in the towel. And to say it may be YEARS just to reach intermediate success, but it will happen! Now I'm not fighting my tank, I do my WCs, I service my equipment, and test my water. That's it! The rest of the time I turn off the TV and just watch as this beautiful ecosystem grows and flourishes. :)
 
Thanks both! There really is no comparison to when you make this kind of commitment and finally see the results. I'm not a huge poster, but there's just no one in my "normal" life that understands. Only reefkeepers get the struggle!
 
nim6us,

Thanks for telling your story. I think it is both inspirational and aspirational. Too often people see the glitter and don't realize the effort it can take to get there but it sure is worth it once you arrive. Really nice tank. I like how open and uncluttered it looks.
 
Thanks both! There really is no comparison to when you make this kind of commitment and finally see the results. I'm not a huge poster, but there's just no one in my "normal" life that understands. Only reefkeepers get the struggle!
Showing people that don't know anything about a reef tank is hilarious. We are super excited about 1 new baby polyp on a zoa frag, 1 inch sticks, look at my dope dragon soul torch! It's taken 6 months for it to split into 2 heads.

Them: "I love this little crab"

;Blackeye...
 
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Thank you for being open with the true side of reefing! All the successful tanks went through the dark stages, but most don’t choose to show it!

I must know, is the wife proud of your accomplishments? :)
 
110% agree, your tank looks awesome! I’ve come to realize that unless you have tons of money to throw at the tank, EVERYONE must partake in the rite of passage known as the tank trials! I think that with experience you can lessen the visuals of the ugly phase, but the true payoff comes when you get to that point where you are truly CONTENT with your reef. THIS HOBBY IS NOT FOR THE IMPATIENT. It’s a pain in the #}$ sometimes, but those moments where you can just sit back and go "AHHHHhhhh" (add chorus), are so worth it. Keep enjoying that reef, you deserve it.
 
When I first got into reefing several years ago I was seduced by the gorgeous tanks I would see on R2R and other forums, I thought "I want that in my living room!". I bought a 55" tall with a canister filter second hand, it came with the standard 2 clowns and some chromis and I was off! I didn't keep anything difficult coralwise, just some leathers and shrooms, but it was all going well enough and I decided it was time to invest and I bought my RS Reefer 425!

I was in love, I bought the dry rock and worked on my aquaucape, watched all the videos, labored over my custom plumbing, it must have been 3-4 months before I even put water in it. I thought about my tank day and night, it was SO exciting! I turned on the lights.. and that's when the fun stopped.

I think the 55" was a cake walk because it was an established tank, I expected my brand new dry rock build to be the same, but it was definitely NOT. The next 2 years were filled with pain, and death, and a battering to my bank account. I had all sorts of fish disease, coral disease, GHA, bubble algae, vermitids, cyano, and of course DINOS.. three GD TIMES! Along the way I bought every product, potion, and gadget that the internet told me I needed. But no matter how much time I put into it, the tank always looked like a disaster. My wife asked me numerous times "how long are you going to keep this up, I want that thing gone."

This thing I loved, that I obsessed over, it was now a millstone around my neck. Of course I had some brief success here and there to sustain me. But for the most part it sucked all my time, and money, and energy and at the end of the day I would sit there looking at it, disappointed in it, and feeling like a failure.

But I'd put too much in to turn back. I got a fish QT and a coral QT. I began testing the big 6 every week. I mapped out my PAR and started charting quarterly ICP results. I kept reading and learning from my mistakes. And I can't say exactly when it happened, but I was sitting on my couch the other evening noticing there wasn't a spec of algae on the rocks, the sand was white and beautiful, my fish were fat and happy, the corals had actually doubled and tripled in size.. oh my god.. my tank was beautiful! I finally had that gorgeous reef tank I dreamt about all those years ago!!

IMG_3097.jpg


I know after 3 years most people would have bigger corals, and giant colonies, that the tank still has a long way to go. But I wanted to share this for everyone else who is close to throwing in the towel. And to say it may be YEARS just to reach intermediate success, but it will happen! Now I'm not fighting my tank, I do my WCs, I service my equipment, and test my water. That's it! The rest of the time I turn off the TV and just watch as this beautiful ecosystem grows and flourishes. :)
it's beautiful, and just once again proves...Nothing happens fast in reefing, other than crashes! Good Work!!!
 
Your tank and rockwork are very nice and CLEAN layout, 2 years to get there does not sound that long to me at all :)

And you’re so right, no one except R2Rers would understand or even care about the hard times in reefing (it’s usually why I’m on here)…but it is those trials and tribulations that make someone a good reefer, no?

loved this story, thank you for sharing it!
 
When I first got into reefing several years ago I was seduced by the gorgeous tanks I would see on R2R and other forums, I thought "I want that in my living room!". I bought a 55" tall with a canister filter second hand, it came with the standard 2 clowns and some chromis and I was off! I didn't keep anything difficult coralwise, just some leathers and shrooms, but it was all going well enough and I decided it was time to invest and I bought my RS Reefer 425!

I was in love, I bought the dry rock and worked on my aquaucape, watched all the videos, labored over my custom plumbing, it must have been 3-4 months before I even put water in it. I thought about my tank day and night, it was SO exciting! I turned on the lights.. and that's when the fun stopped.

I think the 55" was a cake walk because it was an established tank, I expected my brand new dry rock build to be the same, but it was definitely NOT. The next 2 years were filled with pain, and death, and a battering to my bank account. I had all sorts of fish disease, coral disease, GHA, bubble algae, vermitids, cyano, and of course DINOS.. three GD TIMES! Along the way I bought every product, potion, and gadget that the internet told me I needed. But no matter how much time I put into it, the tank always looked like a disaster. My wife asked me numerous times "how long are you going to keep this up, I want that thing gone."

This thing I loved, that I obsessed over, it was now a millstone around my neck. Of course I had some brief success here and there to sustain me. But for the most part it sucked all my time, and money, and energy and at the end of the day I would sit there looking at it, disappointed in it, and feeling like a failure.

But I'd put too much in to turn back. I got a fish QT and a coral QT. I began testing the big 6 every week. I mapped out my PAR and started charting quarterly ICP results. I kept reading and learning from my mistakes. And I can't say exactly when it happened, but I was sitting on my couch the other evening noticing there wasn't a spec of algae on the rocks, the sand was white and beautiful, my fish were fat and happy, the corals had actually doubled and tripled in size.. oh my god.. my tank was beautiful! I finally had that gorgeous reef tank I dreamt about all those years ago!!

IMG_3097.jpg


I know after 3 years most people would have bigger corals, and giant colonies, that the tank still has a long way to go. But I wanted to share this for everyone else who is close to throwing in the towel. And to say it may be YEARS just to reach intermediate success, but it will happen! Now I'm not fighting my tank, I do my WCs, I service my equipment, and test my water. That's it! The rest of the time I turn off the TV and just watch as this beautiful ecosystem grows and flourishes. :)
Such a good feeling its’t it!! Like you finally feel vindicated spending all that time and money and you have this beautiful piece of living art in your house that no one can recreate and is yours and yours alone. Be proud your tank is awesome
 
I must know, is the wife proud of your accomplishments? :)

She is! I think that's another little victory, when we have friends over and I'm in the kitchen pouring drinks I can hear her "You guys have to check this out.. look at this new crab we got yesterday isn't it cool!". Or coming down in the morning see her in the arm chair with the cat both watching the tank. She actually said the words every reefer wants to hear "you know you should buy one of those really fancy ones you're always looking at, the tank needs more corals". LOL! I never thought I'd see the day!
 
When I first got into reefing several years ago I was seduced by the gorgeous tanks I would see on R2R and other forums, I thought "I want that in my living room!". I bought a 55" tall with a canister filter second hand, it came with the standard 2 clowns and some chromis and I was off! I didn't keep anything difficult coralwise, just some leathers and shrooms, but it was all going well enough and I decided it was time to invest and I bought my RS Reefer 425!

I was in love, I bought the dry rock and worked on my aquaucape, watched all the videos, labored over my custom plumbing, it must have been 3-4 months before I even put water in it. I thought about my tank day and night, it was SO exciting! I turned on the lights.. and that's when the fun stopped.

I think the 55" was a cake walk because it was an established tank, I expected my brand new dry rock build to be the same, but it was definitely NOT. The next 2 years were filled with pain, and death, and a battering to my bank account. I had all sorts of fish disease, coral disease, GHA, bubble algae, vermitids, cyano, and of course DINOS.. three GD TIMES! Along the way I bought every product, potion, and gadget that the internet told me I needed. But no matter how much time I put into it, the tank always looked like a disaster. My wife asked me numerous times "how long are you going to keep this up, I want that thing gone."

This thing I loved, that I obsessed over, it was now a millstone around my neck. Of course I had some brief success here and there to sustain me. But for the most part it sucked all my time, and money, and energy and at the end of the day I would sit there looking at it, disappointed in it, and feeling like a failure.

But I'd put too much in to turn back. I got a fish QT and a coral QT. I began testing the big 6 every week. I mapped out my PAR and started charting quarterly ICP results. I kept reading and learning from my mistakes. And I can't say exactly when it happened, but I was sitting on my couch the other evening noticing there wasn't a spec of algae on the rocks, the sand was white and beautiful, my fish were fat and happy, the corals had actually doubled and tripled in size.. oh my god.. my tank was beautiful! I finally had that gorgeous reef tank I dreamt about all those years ago!!

IMG_3097.jpg


I know after 3 years most people would have bigger corals, and giant colonies, that the tank still has a long way to go. But I wanted to share this for everyone else who is close to throwing in the towel. And to say it may be YEARS just to reach intermediate success, but it will happen! Now I'm not fighting my tank, I do my WCs, I service my equipment, and test my water. That's it! The rest of the time I turn off the TV and just watch as this beautiful ecosystem grows and flourishes. :)
Lol don't say that too loudly. Every time I love my reef tank, I touch it. Then everything goes haywire. My new mantra is, don't ****** touch it. Feed + water change. That's it for me.
 
She is! I think that's another little victory, when we have friends over and I'm in the kitchen pouring drinks I can hear her "You guys have to check this out.. look at this new crab we got yesterday isn't it cool!". Or coming down in the morning see her in the arm chair with the cat both watching the tank. She actually said the words every reefer wants to hear "you know you should buy one of those really fancy ones you're always looking at, the tank needs more corals". LOL! I never thought I'd see the day!
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Thanks both! There really is no comparison to when you make this kind of commitment and finally see the results. I'm not a huge poster, but there's just no one in my "normal" life that understands. Only reefkeepers get the struggle!
I have left the hobby several times over the years always as part of a move. Each time I started over within a year, except the last time. I stayed out for 14 years. I started reading R2R about three years ago (tried to go back to my old forum but I didn't find it inspiring). Finally in early July of last year my wife decided I needed another reef tank. I told her I would love one but I just wasn't sure I wanted to commit the time, energy and money into doing it again. Then we stopped at one of my old LFS haunts when we were in the area. We stayed a long time and almost left with a small tank but I talked myself out of it. She knows how much I love the hobby so she said '"I'll help take care of it." Well that sealed the deal for me. We just got a little 15 gallon peninsula tank that would fit on an end table in our living room.

After the first week my wife said "I had no idea how much work this is" but we were committed. We started with manufactured rock, I'm not a fan, and it has been more battle than success so far but it is turning the corner.

The really great part is I think my wife likes the hobby almost as much as I do now. She did most of the water tests during cycling, she always reads the S.G. (I have trouble reading the scale sometimes), now she makes the saltwater for water changes and loves doing the gravel siphon during the change. Three weeks ago she watched me fill the RO bin and took notes. This weekend she asked if she could make the RODI with me watching. Yesterday I went into her music room and instead of practicing I saw she was on R2R looking at cyano cures. It is great being able to share the journey. If there is any interest from friends or relatives I highly recommend encouraging it.
 

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