as we want to give her the best,good example of this is my birthday parties when young was sandwiches and cakes around dining table,my daughter had mini carnival with magicians,people dressed in costumes,goats,sheep and various other farm yard animals,big tents and bouncy castle,assault course and just lots everything and every party we do i say to the better half we need be careful we not giving her to much as fine line between spoiling a kid and giving a kid what we can and letting her enjoy life but we will just try best we can doing best we can is all that we can do.