Jan 09 is when I found a tank of the month thread and I have been addicted ever since. I am building a large system that should be up and running by Christmas. I have three systems and have experienced one bad crash do to a faulty valve on a CA reactor and a tank sitter that was under qualified(Father in Law
The stress of vacation was the toughest part for me as my family takes several trips a year and while the family members are great at watching a dog a tank sitter is the only way to go. I have had ATO fail on vacation, skimmer floods, power outages and my tank sitters have saved me every time. I leave detailed notes and stickies where all water levels should be and I carry some spare parts on hand in case of emergency. I also have a great local maintenance shop on call if there is something they cant figure out(Age of Aquariums).
Loosing nice pieces is tough at times do to pests, parameters, or a rogue fish or crab. This is disappointing and to ease this I have learned to trade with local friends and even give frags to guys with nice systems knowing they will return the favor if I have a problem. I think many in the hobby look at coral with $ signs and forget if you give you will receive.
Maintenance time is tough on a family and when my 10 year old son told Grandma I liked fish tanks more than him I realized my obsessions. I now maintain the tanks when they are at school and try to get them involved in my hobby. They clean the glass and also have a section in the tank that is theirs. I check water parameters after they are in bed and try to stay off R2R unless they are not around. I am lucky that my wife enjoys and supports my hobby and we as a family have become very fishy
I see many come and go and I tell new people unless they have the money and the time fish only is the way to go. I have found a great group of friends in this hobby and I am pretty sure I am a lifer!
I still read the crazy for sale threads, but have enough coral to work out trades for what I want now most of the time, but I am still looking forward to Reefapalooza this weekend like Christmas
